So sorry Mandy for your loss - this is for you:
You can shed tears that I am gone,
Or you can smile because I have lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that I will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all I left.
Your heart an be empty because you can't see me,
Or you can be full of the love we shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember me and only that I've gone,
Or you can cherish my memory and let it live on.
You can cry & close your mind, be empty & turn your back,
Or you can do what i would want - smile, open your eyes, love, and go on.