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id like to post an answer to my own question for anyone eles going throuth this
it is possible to get the bail conditions changed i phoned the PF and they advised for my boyfriend to phone his lawyer and they can set a bail hearing to get the bail conditions changed, i will need to submit a letter stating that it was a one off (which it was) and isnt going to happen again and i want to see him
it could take up to a week to happen but it is possible