Yeah but we all have good days and bad days and she might have some health issues that we- shock horror- are unaware about. It also depends where you are how you dress and what you look like- I never wear makeup unless I am going out somewhere special, I either wear my hair loose or in a pony tail unless I'm going anywhere special- in short I probably look rough a lot of the time, but I'm not spending hours getting ready to go to the shop or a dog show- and neither should she, if it was the Oscars that'd be different-she's just a make up free, possibly ill, possibly alcoholic older lady who looks lived in, and I think that's okay.