I have long been a big fan of the Beckhams and have never understood all the criticism. particularly of VB. Sure they had the thrones etc, but they've been married over 10 years - I for one can look back at things I wore or did 10 years ago and cringe, it's like they aren't allowed to make any simple mistakes. I also think she was tongue in cheek with the thrones, as others have said - whenever you see her interviewed she is very self-depreciating and funny.
I think they should be highly commended, they are constantly in the public eye (yes, some of which they court themselves) but they have brought up 3 lovely boys and stayed married in a world where people break up after just 70+ days of marriage and at least she has actually achieved things rather than traded on a sex tape. If I were their parents I would feel very proud.
I often think if something happened and she died she would suddenly become everyones heroine, and everyone would forget how they slated her - not that I want that to happen at all. But it happened before with Diana and Michael Jackson (hero, not heroine of course !)