SJ- please be assured I doubtless find you as offensive as you clearly find me, as for what I said regarding Mary T's posting history, I think Zac's post pretty much says it all to be honest. Sorry if it upsets anyone that other people draw their own conclusions and don't all swoon with agreement with the original posters about everything, but since you are ' grown up' you'll understand that in an adult world not everyone can agree, but that most people make an effort to understand that. Sorry you don't seem able to.