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To some extent people should really take responsibilty for their own actions.
There are many, many broke & or single parents struggling to bring up a family.
But it does not mean their children are rude, disobedient, druggies ect, not too sure about this 'role model' excuse either, my sons father died when he was 14 but I didnt let him off with being ferel & run around the streets.
Similar to Sara3 says on the previous page, my friends also lived on a sink estate in London, when things got really bad she got a Council exchange & took her kids out the area.