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peeler pal...thankyou for you input, but i dont think you have given me any advice at all, good or bad...you appear to twice now totally misread the post and misunderstood the situation, so forgive me if i cannot just take your word on this...
i am not arguing because i want to be told i am right - i am arguing because i want to be told why i am wrong - if i am???
can anyone actually explain that?