Why not use M5 bolts (machine screws) of the appropriate length.
With a round head screw there will be little visible difference.
You could paint the screw heads if required.
Well in that case it must be a ¼ inch imperial thread – you should be able to confirm this by measuring the thread pitch at 20 per inch, whereas the equivalent metric thread would have a 1mm pitch (25.4 per inch).
no I don't want to make a mess of the car. These are very common in all sorts of cars, inexplicably, in plastic but I cannot find them in metal. They also fit on my motorbike.