I am afraid the police would probably just laugh at you, I sincerly doubt whether they would bother to do anything
With regard to driving an automatic that doesn't matter, it is easy enough to drive a car one handed or even no handed on the steering wheel so it could have been automatic or manual
Driving without due care and attention, whilst technically it is, I personally cant see any difference as you can still drive competently whilst talking/eating/smoking etc.
I believe the biggest distraction to drivers is Kids in the car, whining or fighting at which point you often see the parent driving, turning round to smack the kids or shout at them, that is surely a greater risk than any conversation on a phone
When they ban kids from cars then I may consider not using my phone