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Lesbian refused a rose.
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Would it had been sexiest as well as homophobic if they had also refused to give a rose to a male partner of a gay diner?
Would it had been sexiest as well as homophobic if they had also refused to give a rose to a male partner of a gay diner?
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Been thinking about AOG's question, and I don't believe it would be sexist if the restaurant had not offered a rose to a gay male couple, because men do not traditionally get flowers - ever (even leaving aside Valentines Day).
It would be a different matter if the restaurant were giving roses to women and a small bag of chocolate truffles to men and refused to give the chocs to two fellas.
But at the end of the day, it shouldn't even be the restaurant giving out flowers. It's a meaningless gesture unless it's from the person you love.
It would be a different matter if the restaurant were giving roses to women and a small bag of chocolate truffles to men and refused to give the chocs to two fellas.
But at the end of the day, it shouldn't even be the restaurant giving out flowers. It's a meaningless gesture unless it's from the person you love.
Absolutely ludwig!
AOG - as far as the 'butch /femme' and 'camp / straight' stereotypes of gay couples, they are just that - stereotypes.
Part of the fear of homosexuality that still pervades our society is simple ignorance. It's the sort of ignorance where a homophobic man will assume that every gay man will find his body irresistable, and that all gay men are rabid seexual abusers of any man they see.
Parallel with that ignorance is the desire to pidgeon-hole gays into pseudo-htereosexual roles in their relationships, therefore each couple must have a 'man' and a 'woman' because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype, and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand.
The fact is, gay couples are made up with as many variables and combinations as straight couples - and amen to that.
AOG - as far as the 'butch /femme' and 'camp / straight' stereotypes of gay couples, they are just that - stereotypes.
Part of the fear of homosexuality that still pervades our society is simple ignorance. It's the sort of ignorance where a homophobic man will assume that every gay man will find his body irresistable, and that all gay men are rabid seexual abusers of any man they see.
Parallel with that ignorance is the desire to pidgeon-hole gays into pseudo-htereosexual roles in their relationships, therefore each couple must have a 'man' and a 'woman' because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype, and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand.
The fact is, gay couples are made up with as many variables and combinations as straight couples - and amen to that.
andy-hughes
/// therefore each couple must have a 'man' and a 'woman' because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype, and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand. ///
Some kind of expert on homosexuality are we Andy.
If so perhaps you will also allow others who do not possess such knowledge, to question without the need for you to call them homophobic?
homophobia - intense hatred or fear of homosexuals or homosexuality.
Homophobic, Raciest etc, etc. why does one have to pick such overused words to 'pigeon hole' persons who dare to ask questions on certain subject matter.
/// therefore each couple must have a 'man' and a 'woman' because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype, and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand. ///
Some kind of expert on homosexuality are we Andy.
If so perhaps you will also allow others who do not possess such knowledge, to question without the need for you to call them homophobic?
homophobia - intense hatred or fear of homosexuals or homosexuality.
Homophobic, Raciest etc, etc. why does one have to pick such overused words to 'pigeon hole' persons who dare to ask questions on certain subject matter.
AOG - I do not profess to be an expert - I simply offered my opinion based on my perceptions.
Although my post was an offer to explain gay relationships as I understand them - and there are others far better qualified than I so to do, it was not intended to infer that you are homophobic because you raised the point.
If from my response to you, you took an inference that my mention of homophobia was also directed at you - then that was unintentional, please accept my apologies for any misunderstanding.
Although my post was an offer to explain gay relationships as I understand them - and there are others far better qualified than I so to do, it was not intended to infer that you are homophobic because you raised the point.
If from my response to you, you took an inference that my mention of homophobia was also directed at you - then that was unintentional, please accept my apologies for any misunderstanding.
Your view of the gay community AOG appears to be somewhat sterotypical, that is sterotypical of about the 1960's.
In this day and age there is enough information available about every community for you to update your opinions.
However yet again I think, you think you are being clever. Couching opinions in a question so it appears you are being curious, rather than insulting. You have had enough conversations and layed about enough insults about gay people to realise what you saying is wrong.
Smirking as you write at being so clever.
In this day and age there is enough information available about every community for you to update your opinions.
However yet again I think, you think you are being clever. Couching opinions in a question so it appears you are being curious, rather than insulting. You have had enough conversations and layed about enough insults about gay people to realise what you saying is wrong.
Smirking as you write at being so clever.
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andy-hughes
Accepted.
Since it was I who out of ignorance on the subject had thought each gay relationship must have a 'man' and a 'woman' role, "because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype" (your words not mine).
And it was you who had addressed your explanation at me,
/// and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand ///
I automatically assumed that you were directing your homophobic people" description at me.
Not an unreasonable assumption to make in the circumstances.
Accepted.
Since it was I who out of ignorance on the subject had thought each gay relationship must have a 'man' and a 'woman' role, "because this conforms to the standard comedy stereotype" (your words not mine).
And it was you who had addressed your explanation at me,
/// and makes homophobic people feel a little less fearful of something which they don't understand ///
I automatically assumed that you were directing your homophobic people" description at me.
Not an unreasonable assumption to make in the circumstances.
why is is that no one these days can crack a joke or ask a simple question without being accused of something? its PC- ness gone mad!! I know loads of Gay people who crack jokes about Gays. As for stereotyping - pardon my self-confessed ignorance in these matters being a heterosexual female -but in male Gay sexual relationships surely one has to be Joe and one Joanne -if you get my drift.....or do they flip a coin?
My neck is fine where it is, thanks.
As DtD points out it is often difficult to tell whether AOG is being homophobic or plain ignorant; and one is frequently to be found keeping company with the other.
If you are genuinely interested in how gay couples arrange their bedroom affairs, you could always put up a thread enquiring.......
As DtD points out it is often difficult to tell whether AOG is being homophobic or plain ignorant; and one is frequently to be found keeping company with the other.
If you are genuinely interested in how gay couples arrange their bedroom affairs, you could always put up a thread enquiring.......
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