Am I Right To Be Feeling This Way?
Family Life0 min ago
I was reading an article in the newspaper about the school siege in Cambodia where the 4 year old was shot dead. It was absolutely heartbreaking to read. I was wondering what everybody thought of the photos of the dead child being carried out of the school and of that poor father cradling his child. (Im even finding this hard to type), Is it going too far showing pictures of the personal suffering or should we watch it to bring the full horror of what these people did home to us.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I believe journalists do debate this issue Peri - some more than others, no doubt. Of course you're shocked, so was I - but shouldn't we be? If we lost our capacity to be upset by this sort of behaviour, we'd become cynical or just unfeeling. So I don't really mind being shown this sort of thing.
Being shown it over and over later on, as andy hughes suggests, is a different matter. But the World Trade Centre attacks were a huge event and I guess just as worthy of repetition as, say, the D-Day landings. I don't think they're repeated to shock us or otherwise arouse any sort of emotional response, but because they've become a kind of instant history; showing them is just explaining what happened.
In general we only see dead people from faraway places - probably for the very reasons ABers suggest: so readers/viewers don't see anyone they know in their papers or on the screen. Perhaps Asian news media would show more explicit scenes of a European disaster than European media would, for the same reason. I'd think it was intrusive if a picture of me (or my child) appeared in a local newspaper, but I'm not sure I would worry if it appeared in a Tokyo one, for instance.
I'm not disagreeing with you strongly Peri, I'm really not sure what the 'right' thing to do is. But I do think I empathise more with something when see it. Can't speak for other people, though.
It's a really interesting point you have made, Peri. I cry all the time at news stories and terrible pictures of people's suffering but maybe I'm being too subjective. Seeing children suffering is unbearable. I once saw a Michael Buerk documentary from South Africe when he had filmed a young boy's murder by a rival tribe. He was accused of murdering one of their men and was chased around the shanty town by a huge crowd of boys and men, with machetes and knives. I don't want to go into detail but the images from that have stayed with me for years. Michael Buerk did warn people about the content but admitted that he felt compelled to watch it happening. The one thing it showed me was that I was very complacent about my easy life in the UK and how different I might have been if I experienced their way of living.