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Daniel Pelka's Real Dad
My heart goes out to this poor man. Daniel looks so like him don't you think.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I wish these child cruelty cases didn't upset me so much. It took me a long time to even begin to recover from the poor Philpott kids, murdered by their parents ( I know that the court verdict wasn't murder but it was murder just the same )
I expect that there will be more cases like this, so I had better toughen up I suppose, but it just makes me so blo0dy MAD !
I expect that there will be more cases like this, so I had better toughen up I suppose, but it just makes me so blo0dy MAD !
i do feel terribly sorry for him, but i don't understand why firstly he left UK, and secondly he said that his wife had issues with drink, drugs, why didn't he take the boy with him. I wouldn't have left him with anyone with those problems. And surely her problems didn't just come on suddenly, so did she have them as he suggests when they were married. I am not blaming him, but listening to her mother go on about how it was all Britain's fault and the British people for not looking after her grandson, i wonder no one was able to take him home to Poland.
@ emmie
Whilst I agree with you somewhat I think you have to take in to account two things. One, he would never have expected this to happen and two, the child's mother has been proven to be a pathological and clever liar. We don't know [I assume] what attempts he made to take the child with him or see the child after he left.
There are only two people to blame for this childs death and they are where they belong.
Lisa x
Whilst I agree with you somewhat I think you have to take in to account two things. One, he would never have expected this to happen and two, the child's mother has been proven to be a pathological and clever liar. We don't know [I assume] what attempts he made to take the child with him or see the child after he left.
There are only two people to blame for this childs death and they are where they belong.
Lisa x
I expect it will all come out in the Serious Case Review, but if this ghastly couple managed to fool the school, social services and the police, it would seem to me that Daniels' own Dad didn't stand much of chance in having any control over what happened. I suppose he could just have picked him and taken him back to Poland, but then the papers might have been full of "kidnapped child" stories.
he left when the boy was 1, not sure how much contact he had, but if i had been him, and with hindsight we could do so much, i would have taken him back to Poland. If he didn't have a passport, i would have applied to the British Government, Polish government and told them of my concerns. Terrible terrible case.
mikey, people aren't all that stupid, i suspect that this really boils down to we mustn't interfere, keep the family together. if the woman was so clever why was she a drink and drug addict as she has been portrayed. Lies can be seen through, and the child must have had enough injuries and been seen according to the news last evening dozens of times by those in authority.
from the fathers own words, he said she was violent, threatened to stab him and cheated on him with someone who lived with them. The mother and partner did this i know, but if she was such a violent drunk as he says, why couldn't he have alerted someone. Police were called according to him, but that's a domestic, so what could they do, apart from separate them in some way.
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