retrocop - "As I tried to explain to sp in his quest to discover why gays are subject to violence. You open yourself up as gay and flaunt it openly and visit gay pubs/bars you will be declaring yourself as open season for a bout of violence inflicted upon you. Do not flaunt it in non gays faces and flaunt the fact that you are proud to be gay. It ends in tears and I,for one, am not impressed with gay pride marches or having it shoved in my face."
Frankly, your antique cromagon bull-headed predjudice took my breath away.
Are you seriously saying that being apparently (and camp behaviour is not more a reliable barometer of homosexuality than muscles is a barometer of steroid abuse) gay leaves men and women open to violence in a manner that suggests you simply think that is the way things are?
That is NOT the way things are! This is 2014, and equality and tolerance for minorities has never been higher, and long may it continue to rise.
The notion that being outwardly gay is to invite violence is an utterly abhorrent concept, and if you do not think that's OK, as you grudgingly aceed at the end of your post, then your acceptance is less than convincing.
If I am in a pub (I rarely am) and a bunch of lagar-swilling louts are singing football songs and generally behaving in a brutish fashion I would simply leave.
I would not decide that my offence at their appearance and behaviour entitles me to visit violence upon them because I don't like their way of enjoying themselves.
Thanks the inherent sensitivity to hostility that most gay people routinely grow up with in our straight society, I would imagine that intolerance radiates from you like a homophobic beacon, and you need have no fear of anyone 'shoving' anything in your face - unless it might be a sarcastic response to your pre-war attitudes.
Learn some respect.