anneasquith - Being 'dirt poor' shocked me into doing something to keep us going, learning to make bread, grow things, 'make do and mend' (still have a book someone gave me on that - it has served me well, turning collars etc.). I learned to make virtually all of the kids' clothes (including school uniforms) except for knickers, vests and socks. I made duvet covers, sheets from others cast-offs, it can be done. I even learned to make men's trousers, as well as almost all my own clothes and am very proud of having made my husband's sports jackets in desperation. No one could tell the difference and I was more or less self-taught (a year of needlework aged 11). I thank a godmother for giving me a sewing-machine as her bequest (but I did hand-sew skirts etc. until it arrived).
OK, I'm reasonably intelligent - but I was growing our food, keeping house (not very tidily) and spending a couple of hours each evening coaching children who were struggling with their English for a low fee. If I could, others can.
I'm really sympathetic, it's hard, very hard - but you have to dig deep and help yourselves at times.