AOG
Furthermore, in your response today, you wrote:
"I never said that they did not need a job, I meerly pointed out that if they found their working environment uncomfortable why not leave and make way for someone who needs a job?"
But the implication is right there.
Put another way:
"It's freezing cold outside, why don't you give up your parka to someone who really needs a jacket"
The implication is that the person who is wearing the parka doesn't need it. You haven't said explicitly that the parka-wearer doesn't need it, but the implication is there - even though you didn't mean it. I believe this is what people have picked up on, in this thread.
But leaving that aside, it begs the question of the point of the question in the first place.
Gay people find it difficult to come out at work, so they leave companies for other gainful employment. Therefore, what's the point of your question? What are you actually asking??.