Khandro - //He's fat, ugly and old, he'd paid for a £1,000 table in the club and treated them, then they went all the way to his flat in Maida Vale, what did they think he wanted, to play monopoly? //
Every time a thread like this crops up, at least one AB’er puts forward the ‘What did she expect?’ argument – and another AB’er makes the argument for a little respect and humanity.
I this case, that is you and I.
So, if the eighteen-year-old sat on his lap all night and then danced around his living room stark naked, that does not, as in NOT, give the man the right to assume that he is free to sexually abuse her against her consent.
If a woman is clearly not willing to participate in sexual activity, then a man who continues against her will is guilty either of sexual assault, or rape, depending on how far the assault goes.
But no, a few drinks and a lift to a flat do not translate as – ‘Feel free to have sex with me against my will …’ – not in a civilised society they do not.