I certainly wouldn't want to stay in the EU quidpro. There was an outcry regarding the expenditure of Remain leaflet, I am not aware of the cost of the Brexit one only that it was only fair that there should be funds for it after Cameron had arranged his.
You speak as if you have only ever lived through EU strictures, we have our own Parliament and rights. How do you feel about migrants arriving here from countries whose wages in their own country is £1 per hour, no I wouldn't blame them, but we need to set up a properly thought out system of allowing certain numbers, instead if waiting for Frau Merkel to tell us we have to take all comers. The EU is not the be all and end all it is the last bastion of hell as far as I see it. We have always had our own laws to look after the low paid, unions are there for them. I find it insulting that you feel that fair play is only found in the EU. Our own paid workers won't get a look in if The EU allows the poorer countries like Turkey, Armenia and the rest, they will be here on the next boat if not already here, driving down the wages.