Comparing being in the EU to domestic abuse, or attempting to draw any parallels at all, is a bit low. Ditto all that brainwashing crap. I'm sick of this idea that permeates both sides, that "either you agree with me, or you are brainwashed by the leftie liberal wishy-washy media elite muesli-eaters" (from the right), and its equivalent from the left (ie anyone who is right-wing is racist/ sexist/ *ist, and therefore not worth talking to). It's pathetic, and it basically explains what happened in the US on Tuesday in spades. That not a single state voted differently in the separate president/ senate races shows just how divided and polarised politics has become, and it's typified by posts such as cassa's, with its faux-sympathetic "aww, you're just too indoctrinated to see the obvious" patronising bullcrap.
Enough. Those who voted in the EU referendum, overwhelmingly, did so for honest reasons, whichever way they voted. Perhaps one side was pragmatic, and the other hopeful, and no doubt there was plenty of diversity in the reasons for either vote. Too, I don't mean to say that all reasons are necessarily correct -- clearly, we can argue over why we voted how we did. I just am sick to death of this idea that one side or the other was the "stupid" vote, or the indoctrinated vote, or whatever dismissive adjective you could care to name. It kills the argument stone dead, and it should have no place in any discussion.