“…so it is zacs, but i am keeping my fingers crossed for a No Deal vote,”
As I explained the other day, emmie, next week’s vote does not have a “No Deal” option. The vote will be to either accept or reject Ms May’s deal. If it is rejected, although “No Deal” is an option, it has not yet been determined what the next move will be. I personally (and very regrettably) believe that Westminster will not sanction a No Deal exit and they will find some way to avoid what will otherwise happen if they do nothing.
“ I just can't get my head around why people want a no deal exit. It's crazy.”
Not so crazy as Mrs May’s deal, Zacs. No Deal will leave the UK completely unbeholden to the EU in any way and free to pursue its own policies and agreements. It will leave us as a “normal” country, in control of its borders, laws, money and trade. The government is scared witless of such a scenario (and the EU is none too keen on it either) because the past two years have been spent – by both sides - devising ways to keep the UK in the Union rather than making plans for it to depart properly.
“…because I'm not sure that anyone else has actually tried to deliver on the referendum as strongly as Theresa May has.”
Mrs May has not tried to deliver on the referendum at all. Throughout she has seen the exercise as one of damage limitation, to be got through whilst retaining as much of the status quo as possible. Her deal reflects that perfectly.
“Are you really so sure that the EU needed only to be shouted at a few times and it would bow down to the demands of the Hard Brexit-supporting few?”
Hard (i.e. “proper”) Brexit supporters want nothing from the EU, least of all are demanding it. All they want is for the UK to regain its status as a normal country. If the EU wants to continue trading with us on sensible terms there is no reason why that should not happen. Dozens of countries have trading agreements with each other. It seems hardly worth mentioning that the EU has an £80bn trade surplus to protect and to suggest that trade will suddenly collapse or be so hindered as to be untenable is, quite frankly, laughable. This country is not in the position where it must take “the best we’re going to get”. If the best we're going to get is considerably worse than remaining a member then I think we can do without the best.