// i wonder if she suffered fgm in preparation for marriage back in somalia//
Well, pretty well all Somali women are circumcised, so I guess she would have been back to Mogadishu at some time before puberty, or got it done locally.
It's obligatory, of course, under their school of Sharia (Shafi'i), unlike the other schools where it is merely "recommended", sometimes as a "courtesy to her husband".
AB's feminists and humanitarians (I know that there are lots of each on AB and that sometimes the two groups intersect) might care to think about that final quaint phrase: what kind of man would want his wife to undergo a physical operation which reduced her sexual pleasure?