If it's down to the parents, and the parents are failing, how are the children "choosing" to starve?
Also, why does it even matter *why* the parents are failing? Be it their own neglect, or be it because, actually, you're completely wrong about the idea that nobody in this country is in a position where they actually face going hungry -- the fact is that, either way, some children are in a position of needing support. We shouldn't judge. We should just help.