Mozz - // A great many ex-squaddies struggle adapting to civilian life after leaving the forces. It's possible, even likely, the Harry was one of those, which may well have caused the disillusionment with his role in the Royal family. (A hypothesis only of course, none of us know the truth) //
I sympathised deeply with Harry when he was forced to leave the armed forces.
I think that was the first and last time in his life where he could be treated as anything approaching a normal person, the same as the rest.
Coupled with the fact that he clearly had an aptitude for the life, and earned the genuine respect of the men he commanded, it must have been really hard to leave that life and return to the rarified atmosphere of royalty.
As you say, we can't know how that affected him, but i did, and do, feel sorry that he was not able to carry on doing something he both enjoyed, and was good at.
Further to my previous posts, I honestly think that Harry is a decent man who tries to do the right thing.
But i keep coming back to my point - his sincerely and belief in what he says is never going to be enough, and he doesn;t appear to understand that.
What he says, how he says it, and to whom he says it, has to be filtered through the larger picture, that he is seen as a privelidged royal who is doing little to retain any respect and affection he may have gained thus far.
Not for nothing does the Queen say very very little.