Donny48,
At times the clue might even suggest daughter becomes large, so comedy might become comely. Or the clue might suggest changing hands or directions, so in a word L might become R, N become S etc. Partners are frequently NS or EW, as in bridge partners. It will take time to recognise all these indicators.
To be honest there is only one way to get to grips with cryptic crosswords and that is to have a go at them, then work through the answers when the solution is given in the next edition of the paper. You will need an open mind however, and some are more difficult than others. BigDaves blog does include a guide for beginners, and give hints for solving particular types of cryptic clues.
In the example you have given a link to Danny knew that O was a standard abbreviation for OLD, that AREA also meant REGION, and that the clue said I was abandoned, so leave it out of REGION to become REGON. Then R(ight) goes inside end (TAIL). Of course it helps if you know the OREGON TRAIL! However normally it is possible to deduce the actual answer from the cryptic element of the clue.
There is a very good book called Bradfords (crossword solver's) that might be of use as well. Pleased to hear you are enjoying solving ccryptic crosswords. I have been doing them for over 40 years now and still run into difficulties.