37 Joke,tease. Joe, fiancé, sweetheart (Scottish word, so Gretna Green) with K, 'kissing at first'.
38 - four letter word for 'whine' ( didn't know that meaning) + two-letter abbreviation for 'the same thing', and the letter at either side 'grabbing'. The answer itself is a lumberjack's tool.
Swoln is a new word.
Will have to remember Joe as fiance.
For 38a I have Hangdog. But Chambers does not show it as a tool.
The message I have is 6, 8,2,3,5,?, ?, 5, 10, 1.
I am missing two words in the middle.
I cannot figure them out from the letters around the last letter of the message above.