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Not particularly Anne, it's the bit that follows that has me a bit worried, though I tend to take things in my stride, if something is necessary and is clearly explained why I'll go along with it, however, if I'm told what's going to happen and I have no say in the matter then there's a problem as I will dig in my heels and refuse! (ask the social worker who tried to bully me into putting my mum into respite care when it was not what we wanted for her nor what was needed - Mum stayed home.