I think you are all a lot of moaners. So, your minds are not exercised enough by the new lady - - where would such deficiencies count were you in the line of fire in a battle, as many of our sons and husbands are? What about counting a few blessings? If the lady Kate is indeed a Mepham, should you not be giving her a vote of thanks for getting on with things after the death of a family member? Shame on you!
Nevertheless, a Happy New Year to you all if not too late - I am grateful for any clue I solve!!