"/ I recall talking to you years ago about this when you insisted there was nothing before the big bang //
Funny how science evolves. One minute you're definitely talking rubbish, then later it turns out you might not be."
That's because people often seem to talk about Science as if it's a set of ideas about how the Universe works, but really it's a methodology for trying to arrive at the ideas in the first place. The method -- of investigating, accounting for errors, testing competing theoretical models, designing better models and experiments, and rinse and repeat -- is undeniably the best method for trying to understand our Universe. The theories that then emerge have survived testing so rigorous that it's safe to assume that -- as far as they go, at least -- they are correct. But that doesn't rule out a better theory coming along later, whose job it is to match all that has gone before while providing something new.
In this process, inevitably, some ideas get cast by the wayside, but sometimes they can be picked up again later when someone else manages to find out what the flaw in the idea was and how to repair it. Or, perhaps, someone makes a wild speculation that can't be substantiated (and, so, cannot be called "Science" at the time) but can be tested later, and does pass the test.
One interesting example of this would be the fact that, in a way, Isaac Newton "predicted" the Graviton. We still don't know if this particle (the particle that is responsible for carrying gravity) exists, but the idea has gained for more popularity in the modern age and models can be very sophisticated. Isaac Newton's prediction of it comes from his observation that his own Theory of Gravity demanded the idea of masses being able to influence each other across the cosmos instantly with nothing passing between. This idea of "action at a distance" has always been troubling -- it bothered Einstein centuries later in a different way -- so Newton wondered if later something else travelling between the two masses might exist (his speculation was deliberately limited by himself, but it's clear that he expected his theory not to be the final story*):
"It is inconceivable that inanimate brute matter should, without the mediation of something else which is not material, operate upon and affect other matter, without mutual contact, as it must do if gravitation in the sense of Epicurus be essential and inherent in it. And this is one reason why I desired you would not ascribe 'innate gravity' to me. That gravity should be innate, inherent, and essential to matter, so that one body may act upon another at a distance, through a vacuum, without the mediation of anything else, by and through which their action and force may be conveyed from one to another, is to me so great an absurdity, that I believe no man who has in philosophical matters a competent faculty of thinking can ever fall into it. Gravity must be caused by an agent acting constantly according to certain laws; but whether this agent be material or immaterial, I have left to the consideration of my readers."
Not surprising, since Newton thought of light as particles too, so he was a fan of "corpuscular" theories. But the idea was dropped, as the concept of a "field" was developed, and then picked back up again later.
The idea that there was something before our present Universe, similarly, is one that has little or nothing to support it, and is unlikely ever to be testable either. The Big Bang is likely to have acted in a manner similar to shaking the Etch-A-Sketch to clear it of all that came before, so that there may just as well have been nothing as something. But it's still worth a certain amount of speculation as perhaps someone later will come up with a method of testing the idea. At the moment, I highly doubt this -- and so the idea is, for the moment, "ridiculous". But then, so are lots of ideas until the world is ready for them.