Which Top For Tomorrow?

[abbeylee90]

Pink came today so thought I'd try them on and see which looks better.

https://postimg.cc/N9BhTLXK/cb9269cd

https://postimg.cc/3y90503h/2336b842

[abbeylee90]

That what I said I haven't know him long 

[Impatiens]

Should you consider being honest? Yes!

[abbeylee90]

If the guy doesn't pay for meal tomorrow do I give him another date?

[Redhelen72]

Why should he pay?

[abbeylee90]

Maybe it's old days but isn't man meant to pay 

[Redhelen72]

No

[Captain2]

In today's world of equality, no he's NOT meant to pay.

YOU offer to pay half and see how it goes.

Don't 'use' him or the 'relationship' won't last long!

[Toorak]

I agree with RH and captain2 - you are in the early stages of getting to know each other and should contribute equally

[Redhelen72]

Jesus when was the old days?

we split the bill when we started dating in 1989!

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, it's 2024!  'If he doesn't pay, do I give him another date?' sounds truly awful - is he only worthy of your company if he pays for you?!  

[cashier]

He might not have a lot of money, split the costs.

[Prudie]

I don't think I've heard of a man is supposed to pay for dinner since I was a child. I gather we have to accept your naivety.

Does he know about your issues?

[cashier]

If you don't agree to a third date, if he wants one, you will be desperate again and probably go back to the dog man.

[barry1010]

Split the bill and then you won't feel that you owe him anything and he won't think he's entitled to something.

Equal footing.

[Moorea7]

What sort of meal do the two of you go for?  Pub or posh restaurant?  I'd offer to "go Dutch" unless I knew he was rolling in money😃

[pastafreak]

Red@18:54...I think Abbey means the new guy.

[Redhelen72]

Which new guy? 
bloke 1 = 1 date

bloke 2 = a potential date 

neither is a relationship 

[Captain2]

Oh, Hazel - forgot that one; written by Terry Venables?

[Captain2]

^^^ Errr, obviously wrong thread!

[abbeylee90]

No I'm happy to pay just what I was told but my ex was stingy anywT