Abbey, you mucked up with the driving lesson, but you'll need to let it go! What does 'being upset' do to help the situation? You seem to enjoy replaying some of your... disasters, events etc. Learn from them and move on!
Abbey, if you can afford to go out for a meal, go out for a meal. And if your choice of outfit depends on what ABers think... would you not like, even just every now and again, to make up your own mind?
Abbey/ Have you been for your interview today and have you had the counselling phone call? You seem to have been posting most of the day but have not mentioned either. How did the interview go? I realise this is not what your original query is about today.