what was he doing in the bathroom?

[buzzie03]

Every time my new bf takes me on a date to a restaurant he does the same thing. After we are first seated; he looks uncomfortable and then he excuses himself to go the the bathroom. He's usually gone for about 10 minutes. When he comes back to the table it looks like he's either been sweating or run tap water through the front of his hair. And he does this everytime! What do you think he's doing in there?

[dot.hawkes]

: ) is he bulimic

[Ethel]

More to the point, buzzie - what do YOU think he's doing in there?

[dot.hawkes]

eh? i was trying to be discrete ethel!!!!!!!!!! lol

[rugeleyboy]

if he is masturbating it is because he loves you!!!

[laurence2]

He's ringing his wife?

[Nummy]

why don't you ask him?

[rugeleyboy]

perhaps he is meeting george micheal in a cubicle...........has he ever said to you in a camp way "Lets go outside"???

[laurence2]

Drugs

[helliebobs]

rugeley, you've just said what I didn't dare! i knew we could rely on your to lower the tone! ;)

[yellowocean]

Did you ask him? Cos i would say that he is somewhere he should'nt be. As soon as i read this it smacked of him nipping off to tex or call someone to chat. I no its sad to think the worst but if he had an eating disorder would he not wait until he had eaten! But if he spends long periods with you then im puzzled. Hpw you find out x

[rugeleyboy]

always here to help!!!!

[helliebobs]

rugeley, come and join the matchmaking thread!!

[helliebobs]

And you Dot!

[raysparx]

Pulling his pudding????

[RogK]

Drugs.

[kevshakry]

rugeleyboy,

are u saying when a man masturbates he loves u? How is that? would really love to know

[kazzianne]

why dont u wait till he goes to loo next time and then follow him? If he spots u just say u need the ladies?If he's on fone outside loo you will see him(I dont mean sneak into the gents!!)

[Quizmonkey]

Drugs seems the obvious suggestion. But ask him - if you don't have communication in your relationship I don't give it very long.

[ICEMANSAV]

Could be a panic attack brought on by social environments.

[Dom Tuk]

Could be irritable bowel syndrome or he just wants to fart and does not feel comfortable to let rip in the restaurant.