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christening a baby
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i am writing this here cause i'm not brave enough to post in r&s!
My husband would like our daughter christened in our local village church. On investigating the website it says that the godparents must hhave been baptised themselves (which i suppose makes sense) One of the people who we would like as a godparent, and would trust p's moral guidance to has not been christened themselves (and in fact as far as i know doesn't believe in god)
Do you reckon there is any way round this with the church? i want to get ideas before i put it to them.
I realise how ridiculous it sounds, wanting a godparent that doesn't believe in god, but i would like this person to have some sort of status in her life, other than "mum's friend"
Any ideas (that don't involve lambasting me for being hypocritcal)?
My husband would like our daughter christened in our local village church. On investigating the website it says that the godparents must hhave been baptised themselves (which i suppose makes sense) One of the people who we would like as a godparent, and would trust p's moral guidance to has not been christened themselves (and in fact as far as i know doesn't believe in god)
Do you reckon there is any way round this with the church? i want to get ideas before i put it to them.
I realise how ridiculous it sounds, wanting a godparent that doesn't believe in god, but i would like this person to have some sort of status in her life, other than "mum's friend"
Any ideas (that don't involve lambasting me for being hypocritcal)?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.I think it does depend on the denomination, some churches are more casual in their rules. I go to a free church but even my minister would expect a Godparent to believe in God, as I think a Godparent is expected to bring the child up in Christian ways and teachings. My very elderly Godmother (sadly now gone) was a staunch old fashioned christian lady, heavily involved in our church.
Craft, //Naomi going by your last paragraph I'm clearly not............ //
Oh dear. You really should get over yourself - and past the past you know.
Just out of interest, why do you put a line of dots after practically everything you write? Does it mean something in cyberland that I'm not aware of?
Oh dear. You really should get over yourself - and past the past you know.
Just out of interest, why do you put a line of dots after practically everything you write? Does it mean something in cyberland that I'm not aware of?
Naomi I can assure you that I have nothing to 'get over'. In one post you say that people in R&S would have been helpful with regards to the OP and in the next post you say. "People addle their children's minds as they see fit. I can't put sense where there is none." which to my mind denegrates the OP.
I'm sorry if my ellipses annoy you............
I'm sorry if my ellipses annoy you............
Good idea Daisy if someone isn't religious then a naming ceremony would be a perfect solution IMO when people want to mark the occasion. I must say if people want a christening in church but don't go to church regularly, then IMO it's hypocritical...after all religion is what a christening is all about.