A *** Or?

[Babes96]

Okay, so there is this guy I work with and I've known him for almost two years and in that time frame he's always trying to hangout with me. Well he's a bit of an *** to everyone, but the one time we did hangout, he was really sweet surprisingly and never tried to pull a move on me besides cuddle and just open up. Well I as talking to a few people about him and they were all astonished because apparently he's the hardest person to hang out with. Like nobody hangs out with him outside of work. He told me he doesn't want a relationship at this time in his life but he does find me dateable and he's also randomly messaging me every other day, but he says only a few things then stops replying. What does all of this mean?

[Bazile]

//...He told me he doesn't want a relationship at this time in his life but he does find me dateable..//

He finds you dateable ?

lol - well you should be grateful

[woofgang]

It means he’s playing you....

[jourdain2]

It means - be very careful.

[Baldric]

Your confused?

[Old_Geezer]

Just use him for sex, and throw him away when something better comes along.

[Togo]

Just set him on anybody who crosses you.

[yogi-bear]

A player.....so I would move on if you want to find Prince Charming.......keep him as friend if you so wish .....he doesn't want relationship in his own words and have a nice life, babes :-)

[Khandro]

Welcome 'babes96' to The Answer Bank, having joined today and your first question. Is 96 your age?

[Khandro]

^ or is it your IQ?

[Mamyalynne]

Most likely year of birth.