I know Tashi, neither was I, but my father was. He's from a Lower Falls Road Republican family and EVERYONE lost someone and then got stirred up to avenge them. that's why this went on for as long as it did. All I'm suggesting to you, my father, Baldric everyone on the planet is that we can't hang on to what went before or we simply leave ourselves to repeat it all over again, and there has been enough killing surely, certainly my father thinks so? I don't think either you or I need to have been there to see that, at least I hope not. x