NJ, I too came from a poor background but gained a place at grammar school and, speaking from experience, I think the closure of grammars is a huge mistake. That said, we are now left, in the main, with Comprehensives which, for obvious reasons, fail to extend universally the fundamental quality of education offered across the board by grammar schools – multiple languages, individual sciences, complex mathematics and a broad range of literature, music, art, etc – but for the bright and ambitious the opportunities for higher learning are there. If they weren’t, students from Comprehensives would never do anything much at all… but some of them do very well indeed. In fact a friend of mine, a product of the Comprehensive system, is now a lawyer, another teaches A-level maths. Not Einstein, granted, but she’s not done too badly for herself in forging a perfectly respectable career – and neither has the other one. I think attitude counts for much – but unfortunately the attitude of ‘them and us’ that we see so much on here thrives, and that, in my opinion, is not only destructive, it’s self-defeating. Tell a kid often enough that he's less than others – and the chances are he’ll eventually believe it.