Please Answer

[hiilife1999]

Is it possible to harass someone a lot but that person does not leave us?

[Baldric]

Maybe they just don't take you seriously enough.

[JimF]

Great first post!

[Spungle]

I've noticed Theland and TTT are still around despite daily bullying and insults from the usual suspects. So yes
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[Jackdaw33]

TTT is currently on vacation.

[Spungle]

I don't blame him! Was it Afghanistan?

[Mamyalynne]

hiilife1999, if you want someone out of your life then don't use harassment - have a grown up conversation.

[andy-hughes]

Spungle, surely you have realised that the first and most important qualification in being a fervent Christian is the possession of such an iron clad sense of self satisfaction in being possessed of something lesser people (which is everyone else) need but will never possess, means that their sense of smug superiority is utterly impervious to anything approaching rational curiosity, and incapable of sustaining a nanosecond of doubt.

This means that any and all 'insults' and 'bullying' on here bounce off them like eggshells on a teflon frying pan.

[Mamyalynne]

Is that all Christians or just the ones you've met?

[andy-hughes]

Just the fervent ones mama, the superior patronising hypocritical nasty ones, some of whom post on here.

Fortunately they are a tiny minority, and when I say 'tiny', I mean that for every one of them, there are several million decent loving happy kind human beings who wear their faith lightly, and try to be as good as they can.

I'm blessed to be married to one of those.

[Theland]

Are you wearing tight shoes Andy?
Something seems to be bugging you.

[rowanwitch]

To the OP to harass someone is cruel and wrong call it what it is and you might feel differently. It is bullying.

I know what Andy means and not just Christians, there are some really smug, condescending, arrogant people on this site who are never wrong no matter how wrong they are.

[sirlearie]

priti patel !

[Theland]

//I know what Andy means and not just Christians, there are some really smug, condescending, arrogant people on this site who are never wrong no matter how wrong they are.//

Rowan - Who, why?

[Arksided]

Are you a victem or trying to pee someone off that hassels you?
Maybe they don't know you're doing it to them... rejected from trolldom city maybe?
Or maybe disagree with you on every account.

I do that its posssible to squeeze a zit and get rid of the puss inside rather tha aggitate it.

[Arksided]

I do *know

[hiilife1999]

A friend of mine told me that the motivating factor for a relationship is knowing that I am losing someone in some way. And he said that the meaning of loss is that when I know that I will do any harm to someone and I am sure that she will stay , that person is not attractive to me. I want to know your opinion about this.

[aelmpvw]

my doris has been harassing me for nearly fifty years and we're still together

[woofgang]

Avatar Image hiilife1999 Question Author A friend of mine told me that the motivating factor for a relationship is knowing that I am losing someone in some way. And he said that the meaning of loss is that when I know that I will do any harm to someone and I am sure that she will stay , that person is not attractive to me. I want to know your opinion about this.

my opinion is that i have no idea what you are on about

[Peter Pedant]

bit delphic
so a delphic answer: yes

( er do you wish to add a bit more)
yes deffo

[Peter Pedant]

// hiilife1999, if you want someone out of your life then don't use harassment - have a grown up conversation.//

so true - - so true