Has Anyone Ever Been In My Situation? If So Did I Get Resolved

[abbeylee90]

So I'm in a really bad place as I'm in an underpaid job that I don't like, no house, no car or partner. I never had enough money either even though I got a good socail life but I just feel like I'm worth nothing 

[jourdain2]

If you pass your trial (sounding good so far) then that is the time to tell your mum that you have a permanent, full-time job. I  would give her a bunch of flowers (or chocolates) at the same time and a guarantee that you will pay off your rent.  Good luck.

[Pegasus16]

Well done Abbey, go for it, you can do this. All the best.

[abbeylee90]

My trial ends this week if I pass do I tell my mum I've started or starting?

[Redhelen72]

Seriously? Look at the responses your question has received 

[davebro3]

Why don't you talk to your mum about all this instead of a bunch of strangers on the internet? Just askin'

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey, does your mum still think you're working full-time in the laundry? You've been deceiving her for so long now, wouldn't it be a relief to start telling her the truth? And at least the truth would be good this time - you've got a full-time-job, not all the bad stuff of last year!

[abbeylee90]

Oh yes just seen it she might say is checkout for you? I feel bad lying but scared what she wil say like she did for HB

[Redhelen72]

Only you can make the decision, we have advised you what we think

[Neveracrossword]

Abbey at 07.53. Your mum thought the care home job was ideal for you - but you didn't tell her how badly that worked out! She's had so much of the bad/disappointing stuff kept from her that she must have a false impression of what suits you work-wise. That's not disastrous if the Selco job works out and that you're happy there.  Just don't mislead your mum again, don't keep important things from her.