I'm not sure it's the big deal it was years ago, as the age for marriage, or absence thereof even, gets older. That said - a couple of friends of mine do 'suffer' occasionally - he is fifteen years older than her at 49, and looks older, being bald, she is a child-like 34, and on more than one occasion has been mistaken for his daughter!I think the answer - if affected personally, is to ignore it, and if not affected directly, find smonething more important to worry about. A couple of friends of my in-laws saw their oldest daughter marry a man older than her dad - and he boycotted the wedding in protest Now some fifteen years on, with his daughter and son-in-law still blissfully happy, he seriously regrets taking the moral high ground. So, take care before acting first, and thinking of others' happiness second - which come to think of it, is a pretty good motto for life in general.