gayness

[jamesvswift]

if you are attracted to boys dose that mean you are gay

[jackthehat]

Not if you are a girl...............................

[Whickerman]

you could be bisexual. Although I'm a happily married man, there are some men I'd have happily slept with if I was single.

[leelapops]

Not necessarily. If you were to put a label on it, you could be "bisexual" (as I identify), but to me, I think you love/are attracted to a person, and it might be that their "packaging" is male or female, but essentially it's how you feel about them that matters.

How do you feel about it?

Lisa x

[leelapops]

Um, just to add to that, if it is on your mind, and you want to talk, your local Connexions should have an LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Transgender) worker, or there may be a general counselling session in your area. Not sure how old you are, but schools and colleges often have counsellors. Also, if you are 16+ (I think) check out www.horsesmouth.co.uk, an online mentoring service featuring people who have "been there and done that" on just about every topic you can think of! It helps to chat. Have you got a good mate, or someone you know well enough to explore your feelings with?
Lisa :)

[reachesme]

Yes, if you want to put your hand down the front of thier trousers your a batty boy, don't worry it's not the end of the world, you can watch football whilst having sex. . To be bisexual means you want normal and homosexual sex, if you want homosexual sex, you are gay, you can dress it up and call it Sandra but you are still gay.
James, be want you want mate, don't let anyone stop you from being you and your best bet for a simple life is, get a sense of humour about it and enjoy your life, good luck.
I wish every guy was gay, more pussy for me.

[taliesin238]

Not at all it takes a man to admit that he can look at a man and think yeah he is a good looking fella!! Women do it so why do men feel so taboo about the whole thing!!