surely, beso, it would be better to strive for everything you need yourself, now, while you are on Earth, while you know you are in control, than blindly wait in the hope that, one day, god will sort you out, maybe, if he exists, of which there is no proof.
Are you saying god promotes laziness?
In my world, without a god, if I want money I work harder, if I want love I act as a good boyfriend, if I want my family to be happy and well, I do what I can to make that happen.
If I forget about my beliefs and follow the 'god' path, I just let whatever happen and wait it out, in the meantime I could be skint, unloved and my family left to struggle without my help.
It seems like an obvious choice to me!