Well, Theland, I will bite on this bait…
First, I think very many people, at some stage in their lives, ask those big questions: why am I here? What is the purpose of life? Is there something bigger than me? Each of us who asks those questions will seek until we find answers consistent with our experience and moral values.
Second, many individuals in this modern world self-identify as ‘Christian’ or ‘Muslim’ or ‘Jew’ Those groupings often come with a set of pre-packaged responses to the questions above and others. This makes it relatively easy for those who do not want to think very hard about those questions.
Third, the messages contained in the great and inspirational works that inform those belief systems are overwhelmingly about peace, tolerance, and acceptance without judgment. Overwhelmingly, the recommended behaviour is to “treat others as you would wish to be treated yourself” Overwhelmingly they tell adherents that only God is capable of judging, so mere humans should not judge or blame, but trust their god to make the final judgment.
These messages are consistent across all the main Abrahamic religions, and many other belief systems. Few of us would want to argue with anything that drives people toward those values and behaviours. I certainly would not.
There is, however, another dimension to those belief systems. Each has accumulated certain dogmas, such as what one should eat on certain days, or when and how one should pay reverence to the selected god, or what words or phrases should be used to demonstrate one’s reverence, or what clothes should be worn to pay reverence, or the different roles of men and women. Or what political beliefs are compatible with the chosen religion.
The challenge many of us atheists face is that a very large percentage of those who self-identify as a follower of one or other of those religions appear to behave in ways that are opposed to the teachings of their sacred books. Further we see that many self-identified religionists appear to believe that conforming with the dogma associated with the religious rites makes them a more worthy follower of that religion than adhering to the core teachings.
This results in self-identified Muslims proclaiming that their god tells them to kill. It results in self-identified Christians calling for death or worse for those of other faiths. It results in shootings, killings, bombings, beheadings and torture by those who profess adherence to a faith that specifically rejects those things.
Then we see religious leaders abusing the vulnerable; we see teachers spewing hatred in the name of their chosen god. We see physical and sexual abuse by leaders in their respective churches.
We see hypocrisy.
Deep, embedded, systemic, repulsive hypocrisy.
So, to answer your question, I have found my own path. Yet I remain fascinated by people who claim to have found a path to peace through one or more of these gods, yet who , through their words and actions demonstrate depths of violence and hatred that are diametrically opposed to their professed belief system.
Others on this board have suffered abuse and hypocrisy at the hands of self-identified believers and this has driven them to seek answers beyond the traditional faiths.
I doubt that any of us has a perfect answer to those questions. For my own part, I continue to seek to refine my own relationship with my god (such as it is). Part of that process is understanding how others view this issue.
If I may be personal for a moment, Theland, your self-professed religiosity combined with your intolerance of others, your calls for violence against other people, your willingness to judge others and find them wanting; these come across as perfect examples of why people turn against religions such as the one you profess to espouse.