I have been to various flavours of churches, temples, etc etc, I find the happy clappy born again brigade the most bigotted, self righteous, judgemental of all the modern tribes. Positively cruel in their condemnation of those who don't follow their exact path. If you want to feel real love, warmth and acceptance try a pagan moot. Preferably one where the mead and ale flow as do the stories. You don't have to believe, just be willing to accept they might.