Lonnie, you didn't offend me, but it is so easy for a man to pontificate on this subject, when in reality they have no idea what it's like to be pregnant or to have a baby in normal, happy circumstances, let alone in an unhappy situation. A woman trying to make this choice suffers enough without men telling her what she ought to do. Most women don't have to wait until babies are born to love them - they love them before they even know them, so it's the hardest decision in the world. Imagine a young girl, alone in the world, poor, pregnant, desperate and afraid. I don't think many men in that situation would go ahead with it. If the boot was on the other foot, men would think very differently. It's rarely easy for a woman to make a sad decision like this, and there's no doubt that her decision will be with her for the rest of her life, but sometimes circumstances dictate no other option, and the choice must be hers, and hers alone. She is the one who has to live with the consequences of her actions, whatever she decides to do, and a choice like this is one she can never forget.
Mani, full of compassion as usual I see - and as usual you're talking out of the back of your hat about something of which you know absolutely nothing.