chakka, I am not going to address your individual points except to say that while Mary need not have been dragged along, that doesn't mean to say that she wasn't. Maybe Joseph had an inkling that this wasn't a run of the mill baby to come. Besides, you will have read enough to know exactly my counter-arguments before I make them.
naomi, I referred to Paul because you did again. I don't like much of Paul, and most of my reading focuses in the gospels, with a bit of Isaiah, and I can only say that I am repeatedly drawn back to read them. I do not like the god of the OT, but hope that the revelation in the NT can supercede it for me.
I always ask myself why I post on these threads at all, it is a waste of effort from two sides that will never shake the other. I have nothing to do with the organised church, but I think it's better than nothing - and Jesus did exhort his disciples to go out and spread the gospel beyond the Jews.
Why do you, and chakka, continue to expend effort like me ? Why does Christianity so much inflame or irritate you, why not just ignore it and sail on in intellectual satisfaction ? Something I find striking about our modern-day God hater Richard Dawkins is the sheer venom of his writings. He'd have God banned I expect !
Why is anything vaguely bible or gospel automatically fairy tale, yet anything else - Caesar, Tacitus, Josephus, etc - immediately pure infallible history. What's wrong with textus receptus - and WHY make it up if it's all baloney ?
Best wishes.