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Styley, Theland has a wife and family - and his son has a very severe disabilty, so Africa isn't an option. Theland isn't feeling sorry for himself - he's concerned about his ability to provide for his loved ones in the future. When our lives are changing to any great degree, we do worry - that's human nature. It's also, hopefully, human nature to, now and then, put ourselves in others' shoes, and in times of need, to extend the hand of friendship and to find it in our hearts to feel a little compassion for them.