woa ... patience ... I've got two blokes errecting ... an aerial ... here ... drilling and banging ... ;-)
your security settings are in tools | internet options | security
I've just updated mine
it's set to medium high - I've just visited
http://get.adobe.com/flashplayer/
and the droppy downy thing did what I said ... click ... then another window - install
two mins ... all ok
if you still can't ... drop the
security to medium - see if that does it ... but don't forget to set it back.
another view ... I once made luuurv to a princess ... does that make me a carophile?