Something Someone Said.. Opinion

[tinkerbell23]

How would you take this.....

Me standing emptying todays shopping bags after takeaway dinner

Emptied out some christmas gifts and decorations

Other person says out the blue "i thought you said yesterday you were sticking to your diet"

Me..... Feels very angry!!!

Feels like said person has took a look at me and thought ive put the weight on?

Or am i being sensitive? ...... Im super annoyed

Opinion pls x

[tamborine]

Take your pick tinx

1."I might diet if youre worth it".
2. Work mates say they envy my curves
3. Dont even TRY controlling me
4. When I can see your 6pack
5. Zip it unless you want dentures

[Baldric]

///I really did get mad///

///I just said why did you say that out of nowhere? And where did that come from!!?///

So, which was it?

[Old_Geezer]

Difficult to judge, not being there: but having a take-away and then it being realised that, that sounds like something you were supposed to be avoiding. The comment hardly sounds like it came from nowhere. Sounds like it was innocent enough. And the poor devil had you have a go at them; which appears to be the thing that came from nowhere.

[ummmm]

It depends on how much you mention your diet.

[rsvp]

IMO you are being a bit sensitive and blowing this out of proportion. Maybe your friend had other things on his/her mind - it's not always possible for other people to have your concerns uppermost in their mind when they come out with a casual remark -probably no malice whatsoever intended. Lighten up and let it go.

[naomi24]

//Feels like said person has took a look at me and thought ive put the weight on? //


That's your imagination working overtime. Yes, you're being over-sensitive.

[tinkerbell23]

Thanks for the opinions i appreciate it!!

Baldric.... I asked where did that come from angrily before shouting it when i didnt get an answer... X

[Retrochic]

have you kissed and made up then? ;-)

[Tilly2]

I bet she appreciated that, Divebuddy. :-)

[tinkerbell23]

Im still in a huff. Been in work from 0730 till now.... And starting 0730 tomorrow so wont see him ...... I remain pizzd off i must admit x

[Retrochic]

Is this your new husband or am I on the wrong AB'er?

[mrs.chappie]

Tinks, sorry to say this but I think you're being a bit daft about this - it sounds like you're sulking over it and that's not good. Kiss and make up, that's the way to go.

[tinkerbell23]

Yes retro!!

Sorry Mrs C .... Cant help how i feel!! Lol xx

[Retrochic]

Tinkerbell -in that case cut him some slack - he hasn't learnt all the rules of married life yet lol! You did say he was laughing when he said it maybe your weight is more of an issue with you than him? You've just to tell him you feel peed off with what he said and take it from there -most men ignore 'huff' -in fact they welcome the silence in some cases lol!

[tinkerbell23]

Pmsl i know!!!

He needs to learn to watch his mouth sometimes honestly and its a touchy subject.... ;0> x

Mennnn!

[ummmm]

Tinks - I rarely take anything my OH says seriously. It probably sounded funny in his head.