Cheated

[laurence2]

Which Ab's have cheated on their partners before?

Sorry if this line of questioning has popped up before.

For the record, i,ve never ever cheated on anyone

[catherine_s]

i had lusty thoughts about another guy whilst with my ex...things had the potential of going further but i would never let it, but beat myself up over it and felt awful that i could dare think about another guy. but then my ex went and cheated on me anyway so i should have got in there first...the *******.

i have been the 'other woman' though on a couple of ocassions, and i feel guilty over that too

[laurence2]

Wonderwoman, i appreciate what your trying to say, but you have to have ''TRUST'' first and foremost in a relationship, ie no trust no relationship, it staggerers me why people feel the need to cheat, i,m convinced its the dare factor/can i get away with it, i,ve no time for cheaters especially when their are children in the relationships

[laurence2]

Signing out now people, i need me zzzzzzzzzzzzzz

[Rubyrose]

They always say that 'Infidelity is just a symptom that something else in the relationship is wrong'... Great line in 'When Harry met Sally' though when his mate says that to him and he says 'Yeah well that symptom is f*cking my wife'!

Sorry.. just reminded me of it.

Wonderwoman - I think 'once bitten twice shy' is the rule that applies here. thing is hun.. I understand that we may not ever feel like we can trust again.. but I am hoping I will not live the rest of my life ruining relationships coz I don't trust. At the end of the day.. if a guy is going to cheat on me.. then he is going to cheat on me.. whether I trust him or not. Trust is just our own safety net so we feel less hurt if we never gave our trust away. xx

[wonderwoman1]

i hope so too ruby

anyways off to bed

take care x

[Rubyrose]

Night hunny. Sweet dreams. xx

[robbo82]

I was playing doubles tennis with someone once and said one of their shots was in when it was out. Does that count as cheating on your partner?

[Rubyrose]

Robbo, was that a euphemism or were you actually playing tennis? ;o)

[Lonnie]

According to Jimmy Carter, if you've even so much as cast a coveteous on someone, you've committed adultery, so on that basis, is there anyone whose not guilty?.

[caz21]

Wasn't that from the bible?

[arty7774]

I have been married twice and cheated on both wifes.

My first wife I had an afair with a secretary at work.

The second wife I had sex with her boss one night as my wife was asleep in the same room.

[Rubyrose]

I think Arty wins the competition for the most shocking adulterer!

[girl_lesbian]

I was with my ex 6 and a half years. I slept with three people behind her back and kissed countless others on nights out.

She never found out. Don't get me wrong, the guilt and shame I felt afterwards was immense. I have no idea why I did it, although we were living miles apart for two years and maybe I was feeling lonely. No excuses really is there? Anyways the final time I cheated I wasn't bothered, so that just showed me I obviously didn't care enough about my partner so I finished with her.

I haven't really made myslef sound like a nice person!