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jim; I'm glad your friend wasn't caught up in this terrorist attack, but knowing someone there doesn't really have a lot of bearing on it, I like many others, know people in Berlin, Nice, Paris and London, in fact, many of the casualties in all these attacks are not from the place where it happened, so everyone is in danger wherever they are, which is the whole idea of terrorism.
Also the OP question isn't about coverage, there was plenty of that, it was about showing outward signs of solidarity by the illumination of national monuments, as happened in other cases, which I believe has been very lately corrected due to many complaints and questions (I like to believe this thread included).