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He tends to go round with his head in the sand. When he was married he used to pay for everything, his wife worked and she kept all her money, if the kids wanted anything he would give it to them, even if he couldnt afford it. Thing is I have told him that kids cant have everything they want, and they have to learn the rules of life. I have mentioned it umpteen times - I have also told his son in front of his Dad that he should be paying more, but his son either ignores me or tells me to go somewhere!!!!!!