Wish me luck?

[PinkFizz]

I have that policewoman due here at ten to take a statement about last weeks events with ex and im dreading it!!

[China Doll]

How you feeling now babe? Ok?

[PinkFizz]

Bit fed up China.Wish I had know WM'S advice before they turned up,but hindsight is a wonderful thing!x

[redcrx]

i really hope they do go round there and actually do something. Keep on at them wont you, dont let it drop.

[China Doll]

Poor girl, hindsight is always 20/20 but Red is right, don't drop this and now that you do have Ward's advice put it to good use. The man is a bully and can't be allowed to get away with this.

It'll be ok hun, it just seems cr&p at the minute but remember, you're in the right. This guy will trip himself up too, they always do.

Chin up missey!

[PinkFizz]

The policewoman has just this sec rang - says she has been to his work and his home and he is not at either so she has left a message for night shift to try again after 7pm.

WM - I asked her exactly what she was doing and she says that she wasnt cautioning him but was giving a "verbal harrasment warning" ??

[redcrx]

ah right, so its a 'dont do it again you naughty boy'.

I cant believe that the domestic violence section of the police is taking such a soft approach to someone who has previously been involved in violence. Text messages are mental abuse, in my book as bad a physical abuse.

[PinkFizz]

Im not happy at all!! Hopefully WM will check this thread later and give some advice.God forbid if ex actually did anything he said he would in txt - what the hell would the police say then!?

[China Doll]

Well I thought they were supposed to be coming down really hard on this sort of thing... ridiculous.

[redcrx]

why not call the station that you first reported it to and just ask what the procedure is should you be unsatisfied with the way its been handled.

[PinkFizz]

Im going to see what they come back and say later this eve and if Im not happy then yes I will definitely ring the station back.How do they know that he isnt being serious!!

[redcrx]

exactly, they dont and who are they to take the risk.
Im sure all will be fine though

[PinkFizz]

Will keep you posted on this thread - though it prob wont be till later this eve.And thank you all for your lovely replies and concern.xx

[PinkFizz]

Have they rang me back? No!! Grrr.......

[PinkFizz]

Hi - a lady from the control centre rang me at 9pm last night
to say that she had been radioed by officers who said that they had finally found him at home and issued a verbal harassment warning.I asked what he has said and how he had reacted but she said she didnt have a clue!

[loobie]

Well that's a lot of help!! It would be good of them to tell you how he reacted bearing in mind they've done bu**er all!!! Have you heard from him yet pinky??? I hope eveything's ok xx

[PinkFizz]

morning hun.No I haven't heard a word from him,which could mean he's either fuming or it totally shocked him when the police turned up!

[loobie]

Well from the sort of person that he sounds like, if he was fuming you would have heard something by now!! Mainly a lot of abuse!! Lets hope he's in shock and that he thinks twice about being a k**bhead again!!